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What?! I just noticed Anna has deleted her blog!! Or then she has changed the address...but I think she deleted it! Why? Seriously...it was like the only blog I actually read. Well, there's an another friend with a blog too but it's not quite that interesting...
I'd better ask her later...

Today....is Sunday. Ugh, weekends go on soooo fast. Why is Friday so close to Monday but Monday is so far from Friday? I've had a good weekend though. We had so much fun on my dad's birthday. I'll probably post some pictures later, if I get their permission. ;P

I am running out of topics...it looks like I'm only posting the main "My Day" posts right now...probably because I already gave my lecture about gay people and lying, lol.

I'll post something when I actually figure out something worthy of telling.

~Janette

Horror movies

I just finished watching a horror movie with my cousin and my dad...well, mostly my cousin since dad fell asleep like five minutes after the beginning... That was a really good movie..but the ending..man I'm not going to sleep for the next four years...lol.

I also really really miss some people...I feel a bit sad right now. But I'm glad to have Elmeri here, I've missed him too. I miss my uncle who passed away 3 years ago...but most of all I have to say I miss my crush. Like really miss him. I know a few of my friends are probably going to read this but I don't really give a damn.. I really like him and I want to see him right now...ugh.

I guess I'm just going to go play some games on my phone again since I'm not extremely inspired to write this time of the day... Good night!

iPhone Blogging

I finally remembered my email and password for my blog, and with this new phone, I can start blogging again!! So...I'll continue when I have something in mind...

~Janette

Hey! Happy weekend everyone!! This week was quite one...ugh.
I am so happy now...I got a haircut today, I'm waiting for Tuesday and this weekend will be awesome♥
I am not going to write anything special now, just a quick post to let ya'll know I'm alive...

Okay, well, I'm watching a Jennifer Aniston-movie right now...I love this one :----D There's an awesome Japanese dude...
Okay, umm, so, have fun, people, and...ttyl!! Ugh, TALK TO YOU LATER, I CAN SPELL.

xoxo, Janette

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lying

I just watched this show where a few females discussed cheating. They had all been cheated on and they discussed their own experiments and how they felt about it. I watched a part of it and I felt really bad and actually a bit mad too, because I know a lot of people who have cheated or been cheated on. I started thinking about it...why do people cheat? Like honestly, if you don't have feelings for me anymore, than just break up with. The whole "I didn't want to hurt you" - explanation is really lame,  because believe me, it hurts SO much less when you just say you don't feel it anymore and we're done, then to say that you love me even though you know it's a lie. While you were busy sleeping with another female, I was waiting for you even though I could have found happiness. Real happiness. Cheating makes such a mess...
Some people might think it's fun and different to cheat...yeah, you know, if you're adventurous, why don't you just go and jump off Mount Everest without anything to hang on to. There's some adventure for you.

I have had a lot going on in my family for the past...well I'm not sure how long. No cheating, I think, though I can never be sure. But a lot of lying. I used to be a lot more positive and trusting about things, and towards people. I have been through a lot but some of my closest people have been through a lot more. I have tried not to get into other people's lives to mess, but I've had to go through a lot of crap because of that. Lying is something that I just can't stand anymore. That's why if somebody starts kidding about something, I might get a little mad about that, just because it's so familiar to me these days...I sincerely think lying is some sort of an illness for...some people. I don't think anyone should have to listen to that kind of bullshit. I don't exactly believe in the saying "Once a liar, always a liar." But I do believe that if it continues for a while, it's just not going to stop with a snap of your fingers. So...don't put up with it for too long or you'll notice you're stuck in it. Within time it gets harder and harder to leave that all behind, and the longer you wait, the bigger mess it grows.
So don't put up with cheating or lying, it's not healthy for you...trust me, I know.

That's all for now..I get these weird huge strains of though at this time in the evening so I could probably write a book about one subject. Lol.

~ Janette

gays

Okay, I sincerely do not get some people. I know a lot of people are against gay marriage, and a lot of people are against gay people in general. I am not a part of them. I find it extremely rude to talk trash about homosexuals. What does it matter whether you like guys or gals? It's the same thing as if you said you prefer Justin Bieber over One Direction...no, actually, that's a bad example, because people actually do fight over that. Okay. For example, if you said you like vanilla ice cream better than chocolate. Yes, I picked an amazing example once again...but it is quite the same! It's your own choice whether you like vanilla or chocolate, and if you don't like either one, people won't harass you about that, because it's just an opinion. And nobody really even cares about what ice cream flavor you like...then why do they care about your social love life? That's personal. They don't complain if you have more girlfriends than guy friends or vice versa. But when it comes to love and relationships, suddenly everyone has an opinion! 

I could not imagine myself as gay, but it doesn't mean I have anything against them. No, actually, it's the opposite. I find gay people exactly like us. I don't even think we should call them gay people. Just people. Like I said, they're just like us. Except for one little thing; they're braver. They're not afraid to say what they are and show it to the world. I mean, that takes courage. You know, I actually think that all people wonder, at one point of their life, whether there is really a possibility that they like the same sex after all. Some people push that thought out because they find it disgusting. Honestly, I think those people are the ones with some serious issues. 

Another thing about this that I think about is that why do people (not all) prefer girl + girl to guy + guy? It's all the same! I mean, why is it so damn devastating if a man dates an another man but if a girl happens to like a girl, it's just hot? I am not talking about people in general, but I've noticed that many people in fact do think this way. What happened to equality? 

Even though I am very much for gay people and not against them, there is one thing I think has gone overboard. Now that gay people have gotten their rights at some points, they make it such a big deal. They make themselves such a big deal! Earlier they wanted to be like normal people and just...be. But now some of them want to actually be famous, and have huge gay weddings and talk about gay people on TV...Is nothing ever enough? Why can't we all just be, like we wanted in the beginning? This is crossing the line to me.

I guess that's all I want to say about this subject...I am sorry if this piece of text bothers you somehow, I am just sharing my opinion in my blog. You can disagree with everything I just said as much as you want to. I don't care, because I think people are allowed to have opinions. 

If you have anything to say to this, I hope you leave a comment below, I'd be happy to talk with you.

xoxo, Janet